I Don't want to be Married just to be...

Marriage is 

Love 

Respect 

Honesty 

Affection

Marriage is hard work and both people have to be willing to work on it or it doesn't exist.

Don't hurt the one you love because you don't know what to do.

Get advice.

Read a book. Pray. Go to a counselor. Talk to each other!

Here is a great book for everyone - single, happily married, or having troubles

His Needs, Her Needs

by Willard F. Harley, Jr.

Read it, Do it.